After Dede complained about Kola’s demanding emotions, tension grew in the Big Brother Naija 10/10 house.
She claimed that although she had made it apparent that she had a partner, Kola’s incessant attention to her made her uneasy.
This followed Mide’s disclosure that Kola had spoken with Biggie. Kola claimed that he felt that he was being made to appear foolish throughout that conversation.
Although he believed Dede should know, Mide acknowledged that he had been instructed not to divulge the specifics.
Mide advises caution over Kola’s emotions
Mide clarified that Dede’s intimate conversations with Koyin had a profound impact on Kola.
He said Kola viewed the way people in the house spoke about him as troubling. “He said every single person is saying the same thing in here; now imagine what they are saying outside,” Mide told Dede.
Kola might carry that same hurt outside the house, he added in his warning.
He went on to say, “Look at it from both sides because that’s what it’s giving.” Mide emphasized that Dede needed to exercise caution so as not to be viewed as the antagonist in Kola’s tale.
In her response, Dede said she never promised Kola anything more than friendship. She said their chats were always too serious and focused only on his emotions. “It’s never about me or anything,” she said.
Dede also revealed she preferred light talks and fun. “I just want to gist and laugh, because I don’t want any commitment with anybody,” she told Mide.
She added that she had made her stance known to all housemates. “I told every single person in this house that I have a boyfriend,” she said firmly.
Dede grew more upset as the talk went on. Mide said Kola felt hurt seeing her spend hours talking to others while he watched from a distance.
“He feels that inside here, you need someone to lean on and be around,” Mide told her. Dede was stunned by Kola’s silent actions. “Why is he watching me?” she asked
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